it's in what we give

To be all that we were made to be, we must learn to separate ourselves from outcomes.    

 It’s not in our successes that we learn how to achieve.  And in that sense, neither is it in our failures that we learn to achieve.

It’s in what we give of ourselves that make us into something beautiful.

Success and failure are irrelevant and non-dependent to the effort we’ve given.  They don’t tell a full story and oftentimes do not even tell a true story.   

So whether you’ve achieved success or failure, is often only known by you.